Swamishri: Becoming dear (to them) means they shower their love on us, call us, listen to us, they become like us and play with us. For this you have to please God and His sadhus. Study well, obey your parents, do not eat improper food, do not eat out, bow (daily) to your parents and guru. If you obey their wishes, you will become dear to them. …Do not steal, do not tell ties. If you copy in school (the teacher) is not pleased. Similarly, if you steal even in the mandir, God is not pleased.